Thursday, June 30, 2011

HW420 Unit 4 question Loving Kindness practice.

Question 1.Describe your experience. (Did you find it beneficial? Difficult?) Why or Why not? Would you recommend this to others? Why or Why not?

Answer:
I will have to practice this a few more times before I decide if I like it or not. I would have to practice it more than a week before I would reccommend it to anyone else. I was enjoying the meditation on Loving Kindness until the narrarator said to picture your loved one and on the inhale take in their suffering (something like that). Ok here is the deal on that. It is not my belief that we as humans can take away the suffering of an individual by inhaling their pain. I believe that the Devine Creator Great Spirit takes away your pain. It is our place to be kind, loving, compassionate and empathetic but not to be a human vaccum cleaner. I send out love but refuse to take in pain or negativity. I did enjoy the ocean wave music in the background and the prompts to send love. I will be praying for Devine revelation on this practice to see if my eyes are opened to the deeper meaning of this exercise. How would Great Spirit want me to respond to this lesson. I know I will pray the prayer of my ancestors.

"Oh, Great Spirit,
whose voice I hear in the winds
and whose breath gives life to all the world, hear me.
I am small and weak.
I need your strength and wisdom.

Let me walk in beauty and make my eyes
ever behold the red and purple sunset.
Make my hands respect the things you have made
and my ears sharp to hear your voice.
Make me wise so that I may understand
the things you have taught my people.
Let me learn the lessons you have hidden
in every leaf and rock.

I seek strength, not to be superior to my brother,
but to fight my greatest enemy – myself.
Make me always ready to come to you
with clean hands and straight eyes,
so when life fades, as the fading sunset,
my spirit will come to you
without shame."

–Chief Yellow Lark, Lakota Tribe


Question 2.
What is the concept of “Mental Workout"? What does the research indicate are the proven benefits of a Mental Work Out? How can you implement mental workouts to foster your psychological health?

Answer:
The concept of "Mental Workout" is that your brain can be exercised strengthened and trained just like any other part of your being. "Mental training can transform the mind by reducing disturbing emotions that cause anger, hatred, fear, worry, confusion, and doubt while enhancing positive emotions such as patience, loving-kindness, openness, acceptance and happiness" (Dacher, 2006 ch.6 pg. 63).
Research indicates that the gamma waves of the brain that control higher consciousness can be positively affected through training yourself to cotemplating on developing a loving and compassionate mental state. This paticular study mentioned in the book Integral Health said that with ongoing practice there was a syncronizing of the gamma waves which might possibly indicate a higer order of mental orginization (Sacher, 2006 ch 6 pg. 63). In my understanding different brain waves control different thoghts and actions contorlled by your brain. If you develope love and compassion it synergistically works with your brain waves and chemicals to promote a new way of understanding and deciphering information.

References:
Dacher, E.S. (2006). Integral Health: The Path of Human Flourishing. Laguna Beach, CA: Basic Health Publications


Love and happiness,
Angel Running Deer Dobson

5 comments:

  1. HI Angel. Great thoughts on the meditation exercise. I think that I would agree with you. I had a hard time taking in the pain of a loved one. I found it difficult to stay focused on what he was saying. That is the great thing about spirituality in that there are many methods that one can do that fits that individual. I really liked the rainbow techneque because it focused on my inner peace. I feel that once a person can have their own happiness, love, kindness and inner peace they can express it to others and therefore can help them with their pain. I really liked you prayer that you posted as well. Also, I think that a mental workout is very important to staying healthy. I was told one time that always learn something new each day even if it is just a small thing that way your mind keeps working and stays strong just as a work on the physical body. Besides school what are some ways you work-out your mind?

    Cheryl

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  2. Hi Angel,

    I enjoyed reading your viewpoint on the meditation exercise. I also feel that it needs to be practiced multiple time before I know if it works well for me or not. I am fairly new to meditation so it's not something that I have trained my mind to do yet. In the prayer your posted I really enjoyed the part where it says "Let me learn the lessons you have hidden
    in every leaf and rock." I am a nature enthusiast and feel as though there is a lot to appreciate about the natural flow. Thank you for sharing!

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  3. Angel,
    A remarkable post! I too am not mad-keen on being an emotional vacuum cleaner, but I have learned ways to help.. Usually I start by gaining permission to help from the one in need - even helping against someone's will is not a thing I would do - and then I would go about hearing about their discomfort. I would try to suggest things that the person can (and should :-) do on their own. I can lend a guiding hand, and I can heal with a "laying on of hands", so to speak, but I firmly believe that a person is their own best healer. Also, I wanted to thank you for you wonderful comments on my blog, and my discussion board posts - I look forward to seeing what you have put up there! Thanks for being a beautiful soul. Peace.

    Chris

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  4. Angel,
    Thank you for sharing. While I enjoyed the exercise I would have to agree that practicing it more than a few times would be needed to make an official determination. Interestingly I didn't have an opinion on the concept of taking in someones pain but really thought your view on it was insightful and made valid points.
    Regarding Mental Exercise, I think that I have always had the belief in it but loved that we can 'quantify' it with science. I am not a big science fan necessarily but I always like it when ancient beliefs and practices are validated because it just goes to show that we still have a pretty far way to go.
    Thanks for sharing this was a very insightful post!

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  5. Angel, what a great post!!! I also had a hard time taking in the negative pain of a enemy. I am capable to some degree to take away the pain and suffering of a loved one, I think because they become a part of ourselves, and it's easier. And I agree with Chris, I do help a person in need, if they want it. I can direct a suffering person to the right resources, but I'm not willing to take the pain in suffering into my own heart, a heart and soul I take the time to care for, that I'm not willing to do..

    Love reading your posts You have a great grip on who you are, and what your about!!
    Kathy

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